Making love is not just about the physical intimacy, but also about the actions before and after the act. Your behaviour means a lot to your partner and also is the basis of your future acts of intimacy. People often take their partner for granted and behave boorish. It surely steals the charm of your relationship and also annoys your partner. Here are some things you must never do after making love
1.Rushing To The Bathroom
Getting up and rushing to the bathroom just after making love is a terrible idea. Most people go to the bathroom to check their appearance, brush their teeth or take a shower. It is understandable that you want to be clean but sometimes just lying in the bed with your partner is much more intimate. Rushing to the bathroom might make your spouse think they were irritating to you. It doesn’t really speak well at times.
Lovemaking is an act in which you share your privacy with your partner; still there are limits. Scratching or picking your nose or passing gas in not at all funny. One must maintain certain etiquette even in their closest moments together.
3.Checking Your Mobile
Almost everyone does it. Checking your phone just after making love makes your partner feel neglected. We know your time is valuable and you need to stay connected to the world, but the intimate moment with your partner is also a precious one, respect that.
4.Dressing To Leave
You are done and you are moving on, certainly it means lovemaking was just another task on your mind. You may be getting late for work but a minute of togetherness when you look into your partners eyes and bond at an emotional level goes a long way in your relationship.
You need not toot your own horn. You may feel that you were “superhuman” in bed today but saying that makes it cringe-worthy. It is better to compliment your partner, and if she/he feels you were good they will certainly say so.
6.Turning On The TV
Listening to the problems of the free world or catching the latest score just after some great making love may seem to be a very relaxing and luxurious idea but actually it is not. It shows your insensitivity towards the intimacy you just shared. If you have to watch TV, select something both of you can watch together.
Some people just roll over and go to sleep after making love. It is better to cuddle and show your love and affection to each other. Look into each other’s eyes and relax in your partner’s arms. This is a great moment to bond and have a romantic conversation about your love, dreams and life.
You might have a habit of sleeping separately in guest bedroom or on the terrace, but on a particular night when you’ve een intimate with your partner, exceptions are allowed. After a lovemaking session, it’s not a good idea to abandon your partner and pack your sheets and pillow to move to another room for a sound sleep. It will not only kill the passion on that night, but would also tarnish your sexual relations for several nights to follow.
9.Bringing Kids To Sleep Along
Letting anyone invade your sexual privacy is bound to mar your sexual pleasure and kids are no exception. Many mothers have a tendency to bring kids to sleep alongside on the same bed and if that happens after having sex, it can’t get worse. Well, such a gesture has all the reasons to annoy the other partner, who might have planned something more sensual to be enjoyed after a steamy romp.
10.Falling Asleep At Once
Falling asleep is certainly is a big goof-up that can kill the charm of sex especially when one of the parties involved the the love making falls asleep. Sleeping at once would not allow you to cherish your performance and neither let you enjoy the mood with which you enjoyed that night of passion.