It’s easy for couple to fall into a routine, especially when it comes to foreplay—or lack thereof. These ten sex games concentrate on the journey, making the final act exceptiomally fun.
Here are 10 sex games for couples that could help spice things up in your bedroom and set you in the right direction. Once you use these, just improvise on the tips and make your own games with them. Dare to try it all!
#1 Fantasy bowl. Write down five dark, secret fantasies of yours in five individual pieces of paper. Fold them up and drop them in a bowl. Ask your partner to do the same. Shuffle the chits of paper and pick one, and talk about that fantasy together. You don’t need to focus on having sex at all!
Just turn off the lights, get under the sheets and discuss why you or your partner likes that sexual fantasy and what stimulates each other about it. If your partner describes their fantasy to you, just listen to them and run your hands along their body as they describe the fantasy. Before you even realize it, both of you will be really turned on. Just remember, the darker the sexual fantasies, the more aroused both of you will feel.
#2 Role playing. Role playing is always fun, irrespective of the characters both of you choose. The guy could pretend to be the doctor, and the girl could pretend to be a patient who’s come to the doctor’s office. Ask your partner to lie down on the bed *fully clothed* and pretend like you’re examining them. Look for excuses to touch the patient, and undress the patient giving different excuses.
You could also use blindfolds to make the experience feel more real. Use characters that work for you and arouse each other, if you want the experience to be fun.
#3 Dirty would-you-rather questions. Lie down in bed with each other on a lazy afternoon or at night, and ask each other a few dirty questions. It could start off feeling awkward, but it’ll only take a question or two to light up both your eyes with lust.
And even if you’re not thinking of sex, ask each other the right questions and both of you would be making love within the next fifteen minutes!
#4 Strip questions. This is just like strip poker, but with a little twist. Instead of playing this game with cards, ask each other personal questions. If you ask your partner a question and they get it wrong, they need to down a shot of alcohol, and take off one piece of clothing.
If you want to make it more fun and sexy, wear old clothes while playing the game. And instead of taking one piece of clothing off, each time a partner gives a wrong answer, the other partner tears a piece of clothing off their body!
#5 Horny truth or dare. Both of you can play this game with each other. All you need to do is ask each other to perform a dare or tell the truth. Use a bottle and spin it on the floor, and person the bottle points to has to perform the dare.
But quite frankly, it’s so much sexier and hornier if you’ve got another couple to play this game with. If you have another couple as friends, ask them to come over for a night, or try this on a vacation. But we assure you, play this game once and you’ll be on a horny high for several months!
#6 Sexy dice. This is simple and easy. And if you want to have some fun in bed without getting too creative yourself, pick up a pair of sexy dice from an adult shop near your place. Or you could even make two sets of notes, one set with names of different parts of the body, and another set of notes with different actions and things to do. It’s simple, and for starters into the world of sex games for couples, this is a safe bet.
#7 Tarzan and Jane. Are you into rough sex? Well, play this game and you will be! The goal here is simple. Both of you are in bed. There are a few scarves or ropes lying in bed. The guy has to wrestle the girl, pin her down and tie her hands to the headboard or tie them up together, and her legs to the foot of the bed. The girl has to resist him by kicking him away or pushing him. The guy’s goal or mission is to penetrate the girl, and the girl’s goal is to stop the guy.
This game could start out funny, but it’ll only be a few minutes before the animal sides come out and things start to get aggressive. And even before either of you realize it, both of you will be really angry and really horny. And totally ready for rough sex!
#8 Blindfolds and food. This game requires a blindfold and a tub of ice cream. Sit down at the foot of the bed, blindfold your partner and give them a spoon. They need to scoop out a spoonful of ice cream and feed you while they’re still blindfolded.
If any of the ice cream falls on your body, your partner has to lick the ice cream off. This game may start simple, but the spoon will end up in many different places in no time!
#9 The sexy walk and drive. Do you get turned on when your partner does something naughty on a vacation or in public? Then this game is for you.
The girl wears a thin tee shirt without her bra. And the guy wears a rather flimsy pair of shorts or pants without wearing any underwear. Both of you could take a short drive around the house, or even step out of the car and take a short walk together. Stop by at a little store if you want to be seen by someone, whatever works for you! By the time both of you come back home, the sexy adrenalin would leave both of you on a horny high
#10 Reenact porn. This is simple and straightforward. Get into bed together, don’t build the pressure up by focusing on sex. Just play a porn movie and watch the movie together. Both of you can run your hands on each other while watching it.
But if you want to take it one step higher, watch a movie that’s rather risqué and fetishist, or revolves around a sexual fantasy of yours. Both of you can reenact the characters and do exactly as they’re doing, as both of you watch the movie.