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Here’s How You Can Master The Art of Aural Sex, Talk Away Dirty!

Dirty talking is an art not many have mastered. It requires constant practice; the more you practice, the better you get. It’s like making love to someone with your eyes. It’s a lot like magic—you have to create an illusion and make the other person believe in every bit of it. It is more than just mouthing erotic words and synonyms for genitalia. It is an art and a science that requires precision, perfection and confidence at the utmost. Once you have mastered the art, you can peel away the layers of inhibition and hesitation and unfold the desire and freedom to take someone over the edge and let them surrender to you. It is the way an artistmakes love to scenery—you drink it in and recreate it in your vision. That is what the art of dirty talking is all about. You’re either going to be a prestige at it, or you remain an apprentice all your life. So what’s it going to be?

Read and learn.

It’s All In The Eyes

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It’s in the way you look at someone—the intensity in the glimmer of your eyes that reveals the most carnal desire within you. You look into their eyes, without shifting your gaze. Focus all your attention on your object of desire and affection. Look at someone and let them know that you could be undressing them with your eyes. Let them unsettle and unravel under the urgency of your gaze.

And A Smile Worth Dying For

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It’s the kind of smile that can spill secrets and hide lies. It’s the kind of smile that can make someone weak in the knees not because it’s gorgeous; but because it knows. Yes, it’s the kind of smile that knows what it wants, how to get it and where to strike first. It’s the kind of smile that will melt the coldest of hearts even if it’s just to make a point, and stir the most rested of souls. It will make someone question heaven and hell and the blurred lines between the two.

It’s The Anticipation

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Is she waiting for it? Is she begging you? Can you sense the excitement and thrill in the way she moves without you lifting a finger? Can you tell how badly she just wants you? Are you doing it right? It’s not about her, or you. It’s about the feelings and the tension in the air. Your presence should stir her soul with an energy and chemistry that is palpable even from afar. Just one look, just one smile should make that someone want to writhe with desire and yearn for you.

It’s Your Voice

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More than the words you utter, it is the way those words are uttered. It’s the tone, and not the tongue, fellas. It’s that deep set voice that oozes so much confidence and surety that she begins to feel like she needs you to validate her existence. If you say black, it’s black. If you say white, it’s all white. You own the room and the other person in it. It’s all your authority for as long as you want it to be. But it’s not what you say; so much as it is how you say.

And Also Your Words

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Sex is one of the most beautiful deeds in the world. It says so many things without saying anything at all. Words, too, are some of the most powerful weapons a man has. It has the power to change feelings without moving a finger. The simpler the word, the more powerful will be the impact. The softer the word, the more beautiful will be its effect. Say it with love, passion and with an ounce of urgency that could be a matter of life and death.

It’s The Honesty

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Words are all about how and what you feel, even if they may just be syllables. They effect and they impact. They make and they break. They promise and betray. Words can ignite a fire within a body and can quench a lustful thirst. They can give you what you want and leave you hanging. Use your words gently. Make it sound like a song in her ears. Don’t say it out loud; rather whisper them in her ears. But mean it when you say it. Stay true. If it’s love you want to profess, say it. If it’s lust you want to ignite, say it, too. The power of a word lies in the honesty of it. That’s when you can have her anyway you want.

It’s About Emotion

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If you don’t feel it, you cannot express it—no matter how basic your instinct may be. Dirty Talking is a kind of love. It can ignite lust; but it is not lust to begin with. It is about sex; but it is more than just about sex. It is an art to evoke feeling in another soul and make them want to express those feelings in the rawest way possible. Dirty talking is a lot like that. You have to ignite it just like a feeling—raw, true and pure.

And The Touch

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It’s the way your fingers touch slowly, leaving trails on their skin. It’s the soft caressing that matches the gentleness of your voice. It’s about the way you wait till the very end to induce this one sense that can heighten everything you have said thus far. Touch is the epitome of this art and it will drive both of you over the edge—you because you finally get to have a piece of what you started and her because she finally gets what she’s been begging for.

Become the master; make it your prestige. Follow the path that will lead you to a revelation; not just of the game of bodies, but the game of minds and the seductive power it could hold over someone.

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